"Passive Jay" is a guy with a podcast and a huge problem with women. He presented himself on a forum for Kevin Smith fans as a shy guy who had no luck with women. However, on a forum for Mixed Martial Arts enthusiasts he presented himself as a player who figured out how to get laid regularly by hitting up ladies from http://www.okcupid.com/ and https://fetlife.com/. He entertained his newfound audience with photos of these "lucky" ladies and stories of their deficiencies and whether or not he scored. The okcupid photos bore the watermark from the site. The fetlife photos he had to do screenshots of because the site doesn't allow theft of photos. Reading this topic (which I was alerted to by my husband) was like walking through a sewer and I emailed the folks at OkCupid. Others alerted them also and fetlife as well. His thread at the MMA forum got taken down but here are some of the cached pages:
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This is Jay's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jay.catalano.1
His podcast's page is: http://www.talkshoe.com/talkshoe/web/talkCast.jsp?masterId=124095&cmd=tc which he does with his friend Chris. So far as I know Chris is not involved in his sordid posts.
Kevin Smith put Jay's podcast on his network and was thanked by Jay on twitter:
passive jay @PassiveJay 23 Jun
hey @ThatKevinSmith Thank you for putting my podcast on S.I.R. last night, it was an honor!