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11 October 2010 @ 02:44 pm
Say it loud: I'm Bi and I'm Proud!  
While I think it's pretty hard to miss the big pink triangle on my shirt, perhaps some don't know what it means. So, today is the {inter}national coming out day and in case you don't already know by now, I'm bisexual.

Some get confused by monogamous bisexuals. How can we be both bisexual and monogamous? Well, how can a heterosexual be both monogamous and still attracted to other people of the opposite gender? They feel the attraction and choose not to act on it. I would say that bisexuality means that I CAN be attracted and feel romantic feelings for people of either gender (or any shade thereof) but I don't HAVE to have sexual or romantic relationships with a member of each gender at the same time. :)
Mari Adkinsmariadkins on October 12th, 2010 12:57 am (UTC)
me too! and well said!
Phatchick: Zen Hugsladybrigid on October 12th, 2010 03:00 pm (UTC)
Being monogamous, IMNSHO, has nothing to do with sexual preferences and everything with loving and respecting another person. Finding someone attractive is NOT the same as wanting to sleep with them. I find a lot of men appealing but I love the Bear and he's the only person I plan on spending my life with.
The people who think otherwise are (again IMO) the same guys who are both repulsed and insulted when a gay man isn't interested in hitting on them. In other words, wankers.