I am trying to convince the boys that they don't need to reject all of Mexico or their heritage just because their dad is behaving badly. I am sure as time goes on and the sting wears off a bit they'll reclaim their pride in that side of their heritage.
I am of course still angry with their father but am trying not to dwell.
With nearly constant migraines I am at least being distracted from that mess. When I can, I'm working on a new post for NLQ.