Usually my focus here is on helping those who've been abused. But if we're ever going to stop abuse entirely we have to figure out how to help abusers STOP. Here are a few resources. In the future I will be on the lookout for more.

Abuser Seeks a Way Out and asks Prudence for advice.

Links to books mentioned:

Breaking the Cycle of Abuse: How to Move Beyond Your Past to Create an Abuse-Free Future by Beverly Engel.

The Wizard of Oz and Other Narcissists: Coping with the One-Way Relationship in Work, Love, and Family by Eleanor Payson