Spending so much time writing about my ex-husband only serves to make me more appreciative of the husband I have now. In fact, I don't think I'd be able to write about the past if my present relationship weren't so positive and healing. For every woman out there who has suffered through bad relationships, there is hope, there are good people out there and you can learn to recognize them. (Which is not to say any one is perfect, but there are human flaws and there are severe pathologies and the gulf between the two is huge.)
May this next year bring you as much happiness as you've given me.