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11 July 2008 @ 02:14 pm
Duh, I still have abandonment issues...  

Your result for The Attachment Style Test...

The Cuddleslut

33% Anxiety Over Abandonment and 17% Avoidance Of Intimacy

You're mostly secure, but sometimes you need a little extra reassurance to make it through the tough times. You are usually affectionate and sweet, and you find it easy to fall in love. An encouraging word from a crush or a loved one can motivate you for weeks.



Fictional character with whom you might identify: Kaylee (Firefly/Serenity), Hiro Nakamura (Heroes)



KayleeFrye.jpg HiroNakamura.jpg




Other Attachment Types:
Secure: The Unicorn | The Cuddleslut | The Free Agent
Preoccupied: The Cling Wrap | The Squid | The Insect
Fearful: The Doormat | The Leper | The Exile
Dismissing: The Hermit | The Stone | The Player
Confused: The Waffler

Take The Attachment Style Test at HelloQuizzy



Though I suspect if I had taken this as a teen I would have been much worse off...clingwrap perhaps? I still have my clingy moments but I credit Dave with helping me feel secure enough not to cling anymore.
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Mari Adkinsmariadkins on July 11th, 2008 10:33 pm (UTC)
I have huge abandonment issues.
thirishar on July 11th, 2008 11:33 pm (UTC)
Yay... I heart Kaylee
equani_tsulaequani_tsula on July 13th, 2008 04:52 am (UTC)
I'm surprised

Your result for The Attachment Style Test...

The Free Agent

29% Anxiety Over Abandonment and 33% Avoidance Of Intimacy

You like to be independent, to play by your own rules. You're not terribly interested in finding a partner and settling down, and it makes you nervous to imagine that someone might depend on you for anything. Were you to find the right partner--someone as independent as you, probably--you'd not be too put out about sharing your adventures with him/her.



Fictional characters with whom you might identify: Han Solo (Star Wars), Beatrice ("Much Ado About Nothing")



HanSolo.jpg Beatrice.jpg




Other Attachment Types:
Secure: The Unicorn | The Cuddleslut | The Free Agent
Preoccupied: The Cling Wrap | The Squid | The Insect
Fearful: The Doormat | The Leper | The Exile
Dismissing: The Hermit | The Stone | The Player
Confused: The Waffler

Take The Attachment Style Test at HelloQuizzy



Well,I am since I've only reently recognized that I actually do have abandonment issues. I just have had some crazy emotional stuff going on in my head and finally figured out what it was. I've never been abandoned - but there's been a few people in my life I WISHED would leave - LOL.

Just new relationship blues maybe. New and very different for me (and him for that matter)